Beberapa kalimat yang bikin semangat waktu lagi Hopeless pas TA

we spend our whole lives worrying about the future, planning for the future try to predict the future as if figuring it out will somehow cushion the blow but the future is always changing the future is the home of our deepest fears and our wildest hopes but one thing is certain when it finally reveals itself the future is never the way we imagined it
doctors spend a lot of time focused on the future planning it working toward it but at some point, you start to realize your life is happening now not after med school, not after residency,right now this is it.it’s here blink and you’ll miss it.did you say it?i love you. i don’t ever want to live without you.you changed my life.did you say it?make a plan.. set a goal..work toward it..but every now and again, look around..drink it in…cause this is it….it might all be gone tomorrow.

Meredith Grey-Greys Anatomy

A Wise Poem II

Now is time for you

to celebrate…

the accomplishment of a

dream you have worked

so hard to realize.

You have shown

so many people

how special you are.

Now id the time to begin

to pursue the next path,

to reach out for

the next star,

and to achieve

the things that are

so important to you.

Always keep

your dreams alive.

And keep

them coming true.

by : unknown author

A Wise Poem

It’s not enough to have a dream,

unless you’re willing to pursue.

It’s not enough to know what’s right,

unless you’re strong enough to do it.

It’s not enough to learn the truth,

unless you also learn to live it.

It’s not enough to reach for love,

unless you care enough to give it.

by : unknown author

Kalimat-kalimat yang Membuat kita lebih bijak,,

“Manusia itu seperti TEH CELUP, keistimewaannya baru akan keluar setelah dimasukkan ke dalam air panas”

Terkadang Tuhan memang harus mendorong kita untuk masuk dalam berbagai situasi yang tidak kita sukai dan menyakitkan, semuanya itu bukan untuk melukai kita, apalagi untuk merancangkan hal-hal yang buruk atas hidup kita. Justru memalui berbagai peristiwa itu Tuhan akan semakin menyempurnakan kita dan menunjukkan kekuatan-kekuatan yang tersembunyi dalam diri kita.Bila hari-hari kita berada dalam situasi yang berat, tetaplah bertahan dalam Tuhan!Dia akan menunjukkan bahwa kita mampu mengatasi masalah kita.

“Pekerjaan yang tidak pernah bisa diselesaikan adalah menyenangkan hati semua orang.”

Banyak dari kita berusaha untuk menyenangkan hati semua orang, akibatnya kadang kala kita mengkrompromikan dosa hanya supaya orang lain senang, kita takut untuk ditolak, takut dijauhkan dan takut tidak dihargai. Ingatlah bahwa kita tidak mungkin bisa menyenangkan semua orang, dan bila kita telah melakukan hal yang benar sesuai dengan firman Tuhan, jangan membiarkan perkataan negatif orang lain melemahkan kita, sebab menyenangkan hati Tuhan adalah jauh lebih penting daripada menyenangkan hati manusia.

“Jangan terlalu sering berbuat BAIK sehingga engkau lupa untuk berbuat BENAR.”

Sesuatu yang baik belum tentu benar, tetapi sesuatu yang benar pasti mendatangkan kebaikan. kadang kala kita menganggap apa yag kita lakukan adlah hal-hal yang baik, padahal belum tentu benar. Jadikanlah firman Tuhan sebagai standard untuk menilai apakah yang kita lakukan benar atau salah. Kebenaran bukanlah masalah perasaan, bukan masalah baik atau buruk menurut pikiran kita, dan bukan masalah apakah kita suka atau tidak. Kebenaran adalah firman Tuhan, di luar itu hanyalah kesesatan meskipun tampaknya baik.

“Kesulitan seorang PRIA adalah MENAMBAH waktu untuk mendengar, kesulitan seorang WANITA adalah MENGURANGI waktu untuk berbicara.”

Tuhan menciptakan pria dan wanita dengan perbedaan, hal ini dimaksudkan untuk saling melengkapi bukan untuk saling menyakiti.Janganlah berusaha untuk mengubah orang lain menjadi seperti yang kita ingini, tetapi berusahalh untuk memhami perbedaan yang ada. Bagi para pria, berusahalh untuk mengerti bahwa bagi wanita berbicara dan bercerita adalah kebutuhan, sediakanlah lebih banyak waktu, telinga dan hatimu untuk mendengarkan mereka. Bagi wanita, proa adalah makhluk ‘to the point’, berusahalah untuk mengurangi detail-detail dalam cerita, dan bersabarlah bila pria mengantuk atau sulit untuk berfokus saat mendengar cerita.

*diambil dari ‘Get Your Wisdom 30 inspirasi untuk menjadi bijak’ by Iwan Wahyudi, S.T.

First Love and Last Love

This is what Oscar Wilde said “a man wants to become a woman’s first lover, but a woman wants to become a man’s last lover” Regardless of the fact that you are a man, you desire in your heart to become her finale lover.

The person, J.S. Vase, said this: “Men cannot give up on their first love, and women cannot give up on their last love”. In spite of the fact that you’re a woman, you cannot give up on your first love.

No matter what i say, the things you did in the past, made biggest changes in those few hours of the past. I was thinking that your body would defend itself, but your own feelings and way of thinking weren’t changed in that sort span of time. Not to mention, the other person’s feelings, the things that changed it were extraordinary, even though it was almost impossible.

Whether this is the right thing or not, I do not know, but, I have decided. Until now, I’ve gone back to the past, and all of the things I regretted I’ve redone in the best way I can.

Even if there’s nothing after this, and I may not be able walk the last step forward, I have thought about it well, at the very end, though I may not have let my emotions break free through this facade, in the end, I am still myself. I’ve realized my true feelings all over again.

Even at this juncture, you cannot fully give up her up. Even without the past, you’ve decided to fight even in the present, right?

I was able to go back to the past because of you. Truly, I am thankful. The important things is, not to grieve over the past now, but the purpose of changing them now is for the future!

I came back to the past, completely absorbed in running after her. But, right now, in all this time, I still haven’t once been able to face her. There is only one thing left that I must do. You know…when you think that from now on this kind of thing is going to come up more and more… depressing, isn’t it?

Destiny really comes back around, doesn’t it? Remarkable, isn’t it?

Our lives have always completely passed each other by. I am afraid that this will end with us passing each other by. I was in doubt…

If I didn’t sway…That time should have already been decided .If only, if only, at that time, I have been honest to myself, the one thing I have never said, the one thing that I’d like to say, would I have been able to say it?

I’ll tell you this story because of one thing that’s unusual about it. There’s this one guy, who went on a journey to the past to redo things he regretted about. He, in desperation, exerted himself in changing the past, but wasn’t able to open the door of miracles.

He realized it was the end of the journey, no matter how many times he went back, in the end, only he himself could do it.

Then, he thought, “I will grieve over the past more than I do now, but the most important thing is the purpose of changing something now for the future.”

I think that is why usually people last love is not their first love. But, how if their first love, is their last love too? How if the fact is somebody can not truly fall in love again, except for his/her first love?

Then people said that the person we’re going to married is not the person we love in the first in the world but the second person we love.

If that so why we gave up for the person we love the most? Why we didn’t fight for the person we love for the first?